tact?

Check up at the gynecologist's.

'Well, it (=the lump) has not gotten smaller, has it?' Doctor laughs.
Hm, I didn't think this was a laughing matter to be honest.
And no, it hasn't gotten smaller. If anything, I think it might have gotten bigger. Which is why I'd like to get it removed. To which the doctor replies, that the hystological result has been negative and therefore there isn't really any reason to take it out.

Also very reassuring when he pauses and takes a 'double-feel' when checking my breasts. And says nothing. Is he hoping the radiologist will pick up on anything suspicious anyway?

I think I need to change my gynecologist...